re|engage Resources
Lesson 1: Love
Article: “102 Little Things that say I Love You” by Darlene Schacht
Article: “23 Things that Love Is..” by Paul Tripp
ReEngage Reminder: “What is Love?” Chad and Megan Lacefield
Lesson 2: Brokenness
Article: “Waiting on a Spouse to Change” Joy McClain
Article: “How to Manage your sin (& not your marriage)” by Scott Kedersha
Article: “Pornography: The New Narcotic” by John Piper
Lesson 3: Grace
ReEngage Reminder: “Grace:When Love meets Perfection” Kyle & Crystal Glenn
Bible: 2 Peter 3:18, Colossians 3:16, Colossians 3:1-4
(Book) Extravagant Grace by Barbara Duguid
Lesson 4: Humility
Article: “The Two Dimensions of Marriage” Gary Thomas
Article; “Don’t Believe in Yourself” Marshall Segal
(Audio) “Humility” by John McGee
Lesson 5 & 6: Forgiveness
(Book)“Choosing Forgiveness” by Nancy Leigh Demoss
Article: “4 Habits that lead a Husband & Wife to Forgiveness” by Darlene Schacht
ReEngage Reminder: “No Sweeping” Matt and Sonja McCuen
Article: “Do We need to Forgive?” John McGee
Lesson 7: Contentment
Article:“Marriage: Counting the Days or Making Every Day Count?” Tim Belt Article: “What did you expect? A Trust Questionnaire” by Pauld David Tripp
Lesson 8: Truth
Article: “Reframe your Difficulties: See God’s Reality” by Deepak Reju
Article: “How do you Really Feel?” by Nina Ruesner
(Book) “Spiritual Intimacy for Couples” by Charles and Virginia Sell
Lesson 9: Communication
Article: “5 Communication Tools that Saved my Marriage” by Rob Flood
Article: “The Communication Difference” by Ron Deal (for Blended families)
(Audio) Understanding the Crazy Cycle by Emerson Eggerichs
(Audio) What’s your tone when things are going wrong? by Ted Lowe
(Book)” Love & Respect” by Emerson Eggerichs
Lesson 10: Conflict
Article: “Why do we keep arguing?” by Tim and Joy Downs
Article: Conflict Field Guide- Watermark church
Article: “Getting to the Heart of Conflict” by Ken Sande/Peacemaker Ministries
Article: “Six Questions to ask Before Raising Conflict” by Elizabeth Russell
Lesson 11: Expectations
Re/Engage Reminder: “Looking to God for Fulfillment” Sheridan and Bo French
Article: “He’s Not the Spiritual Leader I wanted” by Greg, Gary, and Erin Smalley
(Book) “What did you Expect” by Paul David Tripp
Lesson 12: Understand
Article; “Emotional Affairs are a Dangerous Game in a Marriage” by Ben Wilson
Article: “5 Love Languages for Couples” by Gary Chapman
(book) “For Men Only” by Shaunti and Jeff Feldahn
(book) “For Women Only” by Shaunti and Jeff Feldahn
Lesson 13: Emotional Intimacy
Re/Engage Reminder: “Emotional Intimacy: Transparency” Brian and Amy Holt
Article: “Weekly Questions” by Emily Loreke
(Audio) One Series: Oneness- Matt Williams Grace Church
Lesson 14: Sexual Intimacy
Re/Engage Reminder: “Sexual Intimacy: And It is Good “Trey and Anna Tomlinson
(book) “Sheet Music” by Kevin Leman
(Audio) One Series: Intimacy Matt Williams Grace Church
Lesson 15: Completion
Article: “Superglue your Marriage” by Dennis Rainey
Article: “5 Characteristics of a Godly Man” by Todd Wagner
Article: “5 Characteristics of a Godly Woman” by Todd Wagner
Lesson 16: Diligence
Article: “10 Things that have Made All the Difference” by Emily Loerke